I should have asked this long time ago but its now or never. It all started when school started there was this really hot girl who was in my class. Couple of months later at a school disco (more of a dance) I wanted to ask her to dance with me she did after that i kind of had a crush on her. Eventually some of my friends found out and they said they wouldn't say anything but one day during french i was doing my work and i looked up at the board and saw someone wrote (my name) has a crush on (my crush) but when i saw it the teacher erased it and i saw it half way through class time. More people found out i don't know if my crush found out but then others who knew about is started spreading it around and soon all of middle school (G6-G8, high school is in a different campus) knew of it and eventually she knew. Since then most of the guys were dissing me and telling me to ask her out and i sometimes see her and her friends look at me and sometimes talk about me and i hear through others that she hates me. From last month i dont have a crush on her after i found out she has a bf from her old school in Australia but everyone thinks i still like her. Few days ago i passed a note to her in french saying that i wanted to talk to her in private she accepted. After school finished shecame but she brought some of her friends and then one of her friends told the guys i was gonna ask her out and everyone was telling me to ask her out. Then i was pretty embarrased and i left. People still talk about it. Im not unpopular and those guys are just having a laugh (even i make fun of them). So what should i do? I dont have any problems with asking girls out because i had a lot of girl friends who r also hot. dont have her e-mail but i have her facebook
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1 :
just forget the whole incident
2 :
Escape all the fvcking runt immature brats you go to school with. What you need to do is forget her until the last week of school. Swap email addresses and then ask for her number. Its obvious you need to do things in private because you are surrounded by cock blockers.
3 :
forget about those unworthy people. move on girl. :)
4 :
just ignore all teh past incident
5 :
If you don't like her anymore, just go up to her (if her friends are with her or not) and get the message clear. "i Don't like you, I know you have a bf, and i respect that," then walk off. And start spreading the word to all your friends that u dont like her. But if you do like her, you have to leave her coz if she has a bf, you dont wanna get involved.
6 :
don't make such a big fuss out of it. just tell her that you don't like her in that way and it's just been over hyped up. It'll die down eventually nyways. If she accepted to talk to u...i'm pre-ety sure she doesn't "hate" you. so it's not like she's gonna go around saying stuff. just tell her and get over with it
7 :
either try to meet her completely alone without anyone knowing, but if you dont think that will happen, write her a letter or email or text or something explaining that your sorry for all the attention shes been getting because of you, but you dont have a crush on her anymore. but try to say it in a way that she wont get offended that you dont like her lol
8 :
get in a time machine and go back to 1985. smart ass fickle women had not evolved yet. Smartass guys talking crap could not see very well, with all the black eyes they had. As a result they never found women and normal people bred them out. All you have to worry about back then is styling the mullet and renting back to the future on VHS to watch with your 'babe'.
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